The Doctrine of Marriage

"And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man."



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The Issue:

The Basic Truths Of Life!


The BibleEveryone that ever walked on this planet must come to terms in this life with some basic TRUTHS. These will be the basic truths that no one can argue with, if they are sane. Of course, if you believe what God says in His Own BOOK about you, then you will have no problem with accepting these basic truths.

1. The Brevity Of Life

"For what is your life? It is even a vapour, that appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away." (James 4:14b) Our life is brief! like a vapor, or like smoke. "Is there not an appointed time to man upon earth? are not his days also like the days of an hireling?" (Job 7:1) He is born, and then he will die! This is certain! (The exception being Enoch and Elijah, and also, those believers in Jesus Christ who are alive when He comes for His Church.)

2. The Brevity Of Your Remembrance

You will soon be forgotten. A man is remembered only a little while, and then he is forgotten. "He shall return no more to his house, neither shall his place know him anymore. Are not my days few? cease then, and let me alone, that I may take comfort a little, Before I go whence I shall not return, even to the land of darkness and the shadow of death; A land of darkness, as darkness itself; and of the shadow of death, without any order, and where the light is as darkness." (Job 7:10 & 10:20-22)

3. The Sureness Of Trouble

Life is bale full of troubles. I have also found this very true!!! "Man that is born of a woman is of few days, and full of trouble. He cometh forth like a flower, and is cut down: he fleeth also as a shadow, and continueth not." (Job 14:1).

4. The Verity Of The White Throne Judgment

"And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment" (Hebrews 9:27). You will not miss this one unless YOU ARE HID in the CLEFT OF THE ROCK!

5. The Eternality And The Finality Of What You Do With Jesus Christ:

We will all be held accountable over this issue. It is a hard fact of life, my friend. Now will you take God's offer of eternal life ... purchased by His Son ... for all those who will put their trust in Him ... a thumbs down? You will everlastingly suffer the consequences!

6. That Men Never Learn From History

We learn from History That Men Never Learn From History! It is a heart problem! Men refuse to learn the "lessons" afforded by the light of HISTORY: the recorded historical events which occurred as fulfillment of Bible prophecy. Now, these are the basic truths with which we all must deal with one way or another!

7. What Should You Do?

"But what saith it? The word is nigh thee, even in thy mouth, and in thy heart: that is, the word of faith, which we preach;
That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed.
For there is no difference between the Jew and the Greek: for the same Lord over all is rich unto all that call upon him.
For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved"; [Romans 10:8-13]


Believe The BOOK!

The King James Bible

BibleThis is God's Holy WORD to you and I! Do you believe it? The A.V.1611 (or The King James Bible) is God's word PRESERVED in the English language for you and me. It came from the English Reformation. This Bible declares that: "All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness." [2 Timothy 3:16] God's inspired word is preserved in the A.V.1611. The word "preserved" means maintained inspiration. "The words of the LORD are pure words: as silver tried in the furnace of earth, purified seven times. Thou shalt keep them, O LORD, thou shalt preserve them from this generation for ever." [Psalm 12:6-7] “PRESERVE.” .

Home In The Hills:

[Or New Jerusalem]


demo Everybody is going home someday. Everybody is going to their LONG HOME. When you die, you are going to go to your “long home” whether, it be in “Heaven” or in “Hell”. Do you realize that truth? “Also when they shall be afraid of that which is high, and fears shall be in the way, and the almond tree shall flourish, and the grasshopper shall be a burden, and desire shall fail: because man goeth to his long home, and the mourners go about the streets:” [Ecclesiastes 12:5]. Read More?

The Doctrine of Marriage

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The Preface:A Help In Understanding Marriage

God would not allow the evening of the sixth day in the creation week to end until He "squared off" with His declaration of Genesis 2:18.

In God's infinite wisdom and intention by a wondrous design, Adam needed to experience loneliness before receiving his help meet.

It was to this end and for this reason so that God would have this declared of him. "And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him" (Genesis 2:18).

It is the Lord God who "knoweth our frame" and our makeup (Psalm 103:14). He knew Adam's soul and spirit intimately, because Adam's soul came from Him. Adam was made in God's image! The Scripture reveals that the "candle of the Lord" was in Adam. "The spirit of man is the candle of the Lord, searching all the inward parts of the belly" (Proverbs 20:27).

Adam would have to be made to feel his loneliness.

This in two ways!

First: Adam would have to see God's design in the order of the creation by observing the distinctiveness of both "the male" and "the female" in the naming of the creatures before him. Adam pondered much in his heart and was filled with great wonder. "Wow! I am ALONE, I have no counterpart."

Second: It was Adam who received the life vocation of dressing and keeping the garden (not his help meet). "And the LORD God took the man, and put him into the garden of Eden to dress it and to keep it" (Genesis 2:15).

Now Adam was in the right place, with a right heart (before God) doing the right thing (working), all of which was before the fall of man and sin coming into the world. Yet all was not good! "And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone."

When Adam found himself thus, he came to the thoughtful conclusion, "Oh! Who can go along with me and who can share the reward of my labor?" When Adam came to this, God said, "I will make him an help meet for him."

Now begins the most miraculous surgical operation ever performed on the face of this planet. And who performs it? "It is he that sitteth upon the circle of the earth," (Isaiah 40:22) the omnipotent God who, with deft precision, takes one of Adam's ribs and makes out of that rib a WOMAN.

"And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man."

Now Adam wakes up from his deep sleep and coming to, he sees that his fondest dream had come true. The sight of that woman had put a song into his heart! "And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man" (Genesis 2:23).

In the next verse, we will see the most basic underlying truth of what a marriage really is. "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh" (Genesis 2:24).

The Doctrine Of Marriage

Its Genesis 2:21-24 that gives the root or vital definition of what the essence of marriage is: "they shall be one flesh."

Therefore, marriage is first, primarily, a fleshly matter. But, if we give ear to tradition, (i.e.) especially Roman Catholicism, we would picture a marriage occurring with the ceremony, where the exchange of vows takes place, before a congregation, in conjunction with a writing (license), issued by the governmental institution (Romans 13). If we were honest most of the religious crowd would consider this the marriage.

Remember: the first marriage occurred before the institution of human government (the licensing agency). Remember: the first marriage occurred with an absence of a religious ceremony (before a human congregation).

However, the Old Black Book straightens us out. It clears out the fog of humanism. It said "they shall be one flesh" and it occurs in its most basic meaning when flesh joins make one. Obviously, the ceremony is not the real thing. It is only a picture of the marriage! Or it is rather the declaration of a covenant before God and before men. This ought to be done, but the consummation is: when flesh joins flesh. That gives the root or vital definition of what the very essence of marriage is: when flesh joins flesh.

The Pattern For Marriage Down Through The Ages

The ideal Biblical pattern for marriage is set in Genesis chapters 1 and 2 … one man - one woman for life. 

The departure from the Biblical ideal was the practice of having multiple wives (Abraham, Jacob, and others). God provided legislation (by the giving of the Law) to Israel, governing multiple wives; i.e., marriage privileges, responsibilities are delineated, including the regulation of divorce and re-marriage. Read Exodus chapter 21 concerning multiple wives. In I Samuel 1-2, Elkanah had two wives, Hannah and Peninnah.

Please note the following in vs. 3: He "went up out of his city yearly to worship and sacrifice unto the Lord of Hosts in Shiloh".

In verses 19 see "worshipped" before the Lord.  See also, verse 21, verse 23. Elkanah said "only the Lord establish his word." I must stress Elkanah was a God fearing Israelite with two wives. Even with the obvious problems (jealousies) of having more than one wife, Elkanah was not out of God’s revealed will in that time, as shown by the judgments and the precepts of God.

God gives the New Testament order: National Israel set aside, and the institution of the Church established with the Jew and the Gentile in one body, which re-sets Genesis 1-2 for marriage, one man, one woman for life as ideal.

Only in "the resurrection" does marriage as an institution cease. In Matthew 22:24-30 the Scripture clearly teaches this pattern ... one man - one woman for life ... ends with this life. For in the resurrection marriage will be non-extant.

[Matthew 22:29] "Jesus answered and said unto them, Ye do err, not knowing the scriptures, nor the power of God."

[Matthew 22:30] "For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are as the angels of God in heaven."

The Husband And The Wife Marriage Relationship Is To Be Like The Relationship Jesus Christ Has To The Church

[Ephesians 5:22] Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

[Ephesians 5:23] For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

[Ephesians 5:24] Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

[Ephesians 5:25] Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
[Ephesians 5:26] That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,

[Ephesians 5:27] That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.

[Ephesians 5:28] So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.

[Ephesians 5:29] For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:

[Ephesians 5:30] For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.

[Ephesians 5:31] For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.

[Ephesians 5:32] This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.

[Ephesians 5:33] Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.

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Psalm 12 ... is the promise to us!

Purified seven times ... God's word is kept in spite of men!


Help, Lord; for the godly man ceaseth; for the faithful fail from among the children of men.
[Verse 1]

They speak vanity every one with his neighbour: with flattering lips and with a double heart do they speak.  [Verse 2]

The Lord shall cut off all flattering lips, and the tongue that speaketh proud things: [Verse 3]

Who have said, With our tongue will we prevail; our lips are our own: who is lord over us? [Verse 4]

 For the oppression of the poor, for the sighing of the needy, now will I arise, saith the Lord; I will set him in safety from him that puffeth at him. [Verse 5]

The words of the Lord are pure words: as silver tried in a furnace of earth, purified seven times. [Verse 6]

Thou shalt keep them, O Lord, thou shalt preserve them from this generation for ever.         [Verse 7]

The wicked walk on every side, when the vilest men are exalted. [Verse 8]